JOIN
The moment they see a sexy, “perfect ten” woman, they’re instantly ready to go. They’re ready to date her, sleep with her, and even commit their entire lives to them. In other words, we fall in love hard and fast. Women are very different.
Women fall in love more slowly. Before
a woman can commit to you, she needs to trust you first. And there’s a good
biological and social reason for that. For a woman, picking a guy to commit to
will affect her life tremendously. She’s already dated hot-tempered, insecure,
pushy, needy, or stalker-type men in the past. She wants to make sure you’re
NOT like any of those losers before getting into a relationship with you. So
what’s as guy to do?
Date her, for sure. But treat each date
as the great Coach Corey Wayne defines it: “A date is a fun-filled romantic
opportunity for sex to happen.” Here are three tips to put this bit of dating
wisdom into practice:
Tip #1: Do not Complicate Things.
Coach Corey
Wayne suggests you follow the “3 H’s” of dating: Hang out Have fun Hook up
That’s it. Have all three elements in place, and you’re doing it right.
Tip #2: Don’t Lay Out All Your Cards.
Be mysterious. Be a puzzle she needs to
figure out. The more mysterious you are about your true intentions, the more
attracted she’ll be to you. In 2011, the University of Virginia showed a large
number of college women a random set of four male students. Then each woman was
told that: Some of the guys in the photos liked her a lot;
Some of the guys liked her a little;
And some of the guys liked her either a lot or a little. (In other words, they
weren’t sure.) You know the researchers found? The women were least attracted
to the guys who liked them a little. The women were more attracted to the guys
who liked them a lot. The women were MOST attracted to the guys whose feelings
they couldn’t figure out. As it turns out, when a woman doesn’t know whether
you like her a little or a lot, she’ll wonder about you more. The more she
wonders, the more attracted she feels to you. So, don’t lay out all your cards
in the beginning. Don’t rush the process and do not vomit up your feelings for
her prematurely. Take her on one date per week, and call/chat with her no more
than once a week.
If you do that (and follow the other
tips in this book), you should get laid by the third or fourth date. You will
only call a woman to ask her out on a date once per week, because this builds
the anticipation, women need to wonder about you. They need to feel the
feelings of awe and wonder. ‘When is he next going to call me?’ ‘Does he really
like me?’ As mentioned earlier woman are more attracted to men whose feelings
are unclear, your being mysterious, indifferent and busy with your purpose is
what will raise her level of attraction to you.
As the weeks go on she will not want to
wait a whole week to hear from you and she will begin to contact you more
frequently. This is where you want to be, the point where she is chasing you.
All you have to do is focus on your purpose and when she reaches out to you,
ALWAYS assume that she wants to see you and simply set the next date and get
off the phone. The phone is for setting dates not getting to know each other,
this kills the anticipation and lowers attraction.
Tip #3: Women are Like Cats, Men are Like Dogs
When you push a friendly dog away, they
keep coming back to you. We’re like that in dating, aren’t we? We’re used to
rejection we just try and try again. Cats, on the other hand, come and go as
they please. They don’t come when called they’ll come when they want to.
If you’ll notice, cats tend to warm up
to the person in the room who doesn’t even like cats. Women are like that, too
the more you show your true feelings, the more you chase them the less
attracted they feel towards you. So take it easy. Treat her like you’d treat a
cat.
